Post Edited (CassandraLee) : 12/28/2009 8:14:26 AM (GMT-7)
Ryusaki, a person who tries to change you and control you does not love you--he has a sick need to control. See it for what it really was. Remember the bad parts of the relationship, not whatever good there might have been. You deserve much better. When you start to heal and learn to like yourself, your relationships will start to improve. I found this out after many years of abusive relationships. You are still young. Please don't waste your time on people who don't deserve you. Do something to help you feel better about yourself, whether it be taking a class or volunteering, or pursuing a job or career you are interested in. The love you seek lies within yourself.