I am sorry that you are in this situation. It is honestly baffleing me that you would fall in love with a woman after being married to the same man for 11 years. Do you love him any less than you did? Do you think that this could just be a passing phase? Often when we don't feel loved by our husbands, we reach out to something else. Just food for thought. I hate to see you end such a relationship and then have the woman say that it isn't going to work. But be realixitc about it. She doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore, you need to respect that. And go on with your life.
I am sorry about your dog. I hope that he/she will be okay. I am an animal loveer and I know that dogs can be great companions. I recently lost mine and am getting a pup in March. I am loking forward to that. I really loved her and it still makes me cry to think that she is gone now.
I hope that you feel better soon. I can see that this is really hard for you. Please keep posting, hopefully we can help you figure something out. Just realize that you aren't going to have a relationship with the other woman, are you still with your husband? Have you talked to him about any of this?
I hope that you keep posting and let us know what is going on.
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