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Godschick
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   Posted 3/4/2010 10:34 PM (GMT -7)   
Hey It is me again....
I feel so fragil, hurt and broken at the moment...
My brother is still staying with us at the moment...
 
Last week on Monday at 5am in the morning My nana's stepmum (Which is my granny) died....
I had a really, really, really, really, really close relationship with My Granny...
She was only 85 years of age,
Her funral was last week on Saturday at 2pm in the afternoon.... So I went to the funral.... It was sad, and I cried...
I cried all of last week when I have been in bed at night times, and I still do sometimes....
I have walked away from God as well....
I need help and encouragment..
From The hurting Sarah

THE HAPPY TURTLE
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   Posted 3/5/2010 3:46 AM (GMT -7)   
sorry sarah for the loss of your grandma. grief is a hard thing, and there is no right or wrong way of doing it. know that she is in a good place. i hope you get connected with god again, i am not religious as such, but from previous posts by you i know that you had a strong connection with him. healing prayers i send. keep posting, we are here for you. with compasion, jamie.
YESTERDAY IS A BUTTERLY WITHOUT WINGS. (ME)
 
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REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.


serafena
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   Posted 3/6/2010 10:02 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi Sarah,

I'm so sorry for your loss. Hang in there, write when you can, know we're thinking of you!

serafena
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Godschick
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   Posted 3/6/2010 12:43 PM (GMT -7)   
Normally when people die, I can move on stright away with my life....
But since my Granny(My nana's stepmum) died last week I have been missing her A LOT!!!!
I am angry with God because he let my granny die... That is why I have slipped away....
Well I am going to go now...
 
From Sarah

lostandconfuzzled
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   Posted 3/6/2010 6:22 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi Sarah I am so sorry to hear about your loss *hugs* Jamiee is right in that grief is hard and there is no right or wrong way of doing it. Different people affect us in different ways..I have lost a lot of family members..I was angry with God with them too..both of my grandfathers, an uncle, one grandmother and my aunt have all passed away way too suddently..I was close with all of them..but when my aunt passed thats when I was the most angriest because she was only 25 years old at the time (she has been in heaven for 13 years now) and I was mad at God because why would he let this happen to someone so young..so I understand the feelings and emotions that you are going thru..I too have slipped away from God...just know that there are people who are here for you and when you are ready to talk you can always post..every person deals with grief in a different way and within their own time..there is no time limit..sending hug vibes

worriedgirl
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   Posted 3/8/2010 8:12 AM (GMT -7)   
hey sarah i am sorry for your loss. i know the pain as i just lost my mom. can i offer you a word of support/
i heard on a show that i watch and it touched my heart and i hope it will give you the same peace.
"no one really dies because they have loved. because they have loved their memory will live on in everyones life that they have touched."
The only person who can make you happy is you. Be your own self and love who you are because each and every one of you are wonderful for who you are
 
"No one really dies because they have loved. Because they love they stay in the hearts of the people they have touched so in that their memory lives on." Ghost whisperer-i know corny but this touched me deep down and i see so much truth in it.


getting by
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   Posted 3/8/2010 3:46 PM (GMT -7)   
Worried Girl,

I really like what you wrote, and I see you have it in your signature. Thank you for that.

Sarah,

Try to understand that your grandmother is in a better place right now. And that all things happen for a reason even if we can't understand it at the time. And as posted above, there is no time limit on grief. You might even want to speak with a grief counselor. Or a regular counselor for that matter. I know that this hurts and doesn't seem fair at this time, but in time you will understand more and be able to accept it.

Best wishes and condolences to you.

Hugs, Karen
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MIKEL99
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   Posted 3/8/2010 7:44 PM (GMT -7)   
Yes Sarah please seek out a counselor to talk to , the loss of a loved one is almost a surreal expierence and one most people aren't prepared to deal with , the sorrow can be overwhelming if you don't know how to allow yourself to grieve . A grief counselor can guide you thru this process , they know how to help .Please don't isolate yourself thats usually not a good idea , getting a journal and writing down how you feel can help a lot ,Best of luck to you Sarah
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Godschick
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   Posted 3/10/2010 5:52 PM (GMT -7)   
Hey Just me....
I just got home a few minutes ago....
I went out this morning for a coffee, with one of my adult mentors through my church that I have, and we talked and talked and talked....
Which was good to talk to her about the things that I am going through.....
 
Thanks for the things that you have all said.....
I am still feeling lost and......
It is like I am stuck between 2 rocks at the momeny...
Well I am going to go and listen to some music now...
 
Hugs
From Sarah

Godschick
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   Posted 3/19/2010 1:08 PM (GMT -7)   
Hey it is me again.......
I have a 21 year old close friend who is going out with a 51 year old guy who drinks and who abused her last year.....
She knows I dont like it....
It I have told her 1000 times that going out with a 51 year old is unhealthy relationship, but she doesnt think it is...
And we could not seam to work it out...
So I lost my friend yestorday...
So I am not happy at the moment....
Well I better go now...
 
Hugs
From Sarah

THE HAPPY TURTLE
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   Posted 3/20/2010 2:56 AM (GMT -7)   
hopefully sarah she soon realizes that this relationship is unhealthy. especially if he is treating her wrong. and i hope too that she comes back to you for advice and comfort, as this is a big possibility. take care. hang in there. jamie
YESTERDAY IS A BUTTERLY WITHOUT WINGS. (ME)
 
DX, MDD, SEVERE BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER.
 
REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.


getting by
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   Posted 3/20/2010 6:38 AM (GMT -7)   
I too think that when she realizes what is going on she will come back to being a friend to you. She is in denial right now, though I know that you hate to see your friend suffer with this. You are a good friend by letting her know what is what. Don't give up on her, she is blind at this time because she thinks that she loves the guy.

Take care,

Hugs, Karen
  Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
 
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies


Godschick
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   Posted 3/27/2010 8:55 PM (GMT -7)   
Hey Karen and Jamiee
 
Thanks for being a good friend that I can talk to....
Thanks for the encouragement that I need right now...
Thanks....
 
Hugs
From Sarah
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