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clumsybee
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Date Joined Mar 2010
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   Posted 4/18/2010 4:14 PM (GMT -7)   
Every day pain radiates through my body. I cry myself to sleep every night because the pain is so bad. I can't remember the last time I was happy. I've no friends and my life sucks. It's been this way for years and it only gets worse. My future is a miserable black hole. I'll never be as happy as I once was ever again.
Fibromyalgia, Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, Hashimoto's Thyroiditis, Raynaud's Phenomenon, Asthma, Migraines.

Just a small town girl, livin' in a lonely world...


getting by
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   Posted 4/18/2010 4:54 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi Bee,

Do you mind explaining what is causing your pain? I have fibromyalgia so I live with it every day too. I am just curious as to what is causing the physical pain for you.

Negative thinking doesn't help us. When you say that you will never ever be happy like you once were, you are setting yourself up for unhappiness. And you are setting yourself up to fail. We never know what lies in the future. You could be surprised at the chain of events that might take place in your life.

You sound lonely to me. Have you tried getting out and making some friends. Go to places where people gather, coffee shops, book stores etc. You need to get out amongst people to make friends. Though I have made some good friends just on this site, which is great. I am happy about it.

A lot of times you have to change your way of thinking in order to become happy. Do you have a therapist? I have one and it really does help. You still have to do the work, but they do guide you.

I hope that you get to feeling better soon.

Take care,

Hugs, Karen

I just realized that you have fibromyalgia too.  So I understand your pain.  Do you take anything for it?


  Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
 
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies

Post Edited (getting by) : 4/18/2010 5:57:28 PM (GMT-6)


THE HAPPY TURTLE
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   Posted 4/18/2010 10:59 PM (GMT -7)   
hi bee, jamie here.
 
am sorry that you are depressed. something i have learn't (here on the forum) is to take one day at a time. hoping you feel better soon. with healing compassion, jamie.
YESTERDAY IS A BUTTERLY WITHOUT WINGS. (ME)
 
DX, MDD, SEVERE BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER.
 
REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.

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