Hey guys, not sure if I will be continuing posting....

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-Misunderstood-
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   Posted 5/21/2010 7:18 AM (GMT -7)   
Hey all...just Misunderstood again, feeling as the name might allude to. I appreciate the help and time given by those kind people who have over my short time here...I don't know...from reading some of the other stories I feel somewhat as if I am not really suffering as I think I might possibly be. Maybe its all just in my head and I shouldn't be complaining. I think I have no answer, that there is no definitive solution, I just am what I am and that's literally all there is to it. I do not want to waste all your time replying to my posts, which from my prospective, are relatively without the importance due to your time in helping when there are so many others who need it more. I'm sorry that I have wasted so much time in my ranting and nonsense and lengthy posts. I will leave my account open for my email to be left available, and I wont quite stop coming just yet I don't think. I'm not sure about just about everything so I won't act like I am about this. It just seems to me that a knot can be untied...even if its a tight, difficult one. If you are dealing with a dreadlock though, sometimes they get to the point where its so interwoven and entangled that there is no hope. I feel like the dreadlock...but at the same time I may just be "off the beam" and am looking for something that does not exist.....ehhh *shrugs*

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   Posted 5/21/2010 7:24 AM (GMT -7)   
Just because there may be others worse off than yourself, does not mean that your problems aren't significant. If we can help you in the smallest way, it is worth it. So KEEP POSTING. You are an individual with individual problems, even if they aren' that big, they are still your problems and we are here to support you.

Know that we all care and we do want to help in any way that we can.

Best wishes for a wonderful day.

Hugs, Karen
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THE HAPPY TURTLE
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   Posted 5/21/2010 8:48 AM (GMT -7)   
keep with us. that dreadlock, well, one dready at a time. jamie.
YESTERDAY IS A BUTTERLY WITHOUT WINGS. (ME)
 
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harrington49
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   Posted 5/21/2010 5:21 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi Misunderstood

You know last week I felt exactly how you are feeling , I felt completely "misunderstood" but thanks to my lovely new friends on HW I came back to posting. I was just going to leave and thought "oh the hell with it" but everyone on here does care, it's like they all surround you and love you and want you to be telling them what is happening in your life, they are interested and care and worry about you.

So don't think it is the way it feels to you right now because I am a fine example that that is not the case. This probably sounds a bit cryptic to you, but believe me you need to keep posting and keep letting everyone know how you are going.

All the best to you.
Harrington49


willowsgrandma
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   Posted 5/21/2010 5:23 PM (GMT -7)   
yeah Hi Jamiee! I have been reading most of your posts and find that you are a very kind, caring man. Like some others said that it's possible that a lot of members are in more pain than you. Jamiee you know that all people handle (manage) painn different ways. You always post such positive messages. Please don't leave. You would definitely be missed! I joined HW in January. Are you in Australia? Take care and keep posting! Donna from east Texas turn

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   Posted 5/21/2010 5:52 PM (GMT -7)   
Donna,

I don't think that "Jamiee" is leaving, but "Missunderstood" was thinking about it, but hopefully we talked him out of it.

Hugs, Karen
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THE HAPPY TURTLE
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   Posted 5/21/2010 6:21 PM (GMT -7)   
willowsgrandma. going nowhere sweetie. trying to keep misunderstood posting and with us. thx 4 your kind words, yeah pain sucks, all pain that is!! thx, jamie.
YESTERDAY IS A BUTTERLY WITHOUT WINGS. (ME)
 
DX, MDD, SEVERE BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER.
 
REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.


manyembers
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   Posted 5/21/2010 11:40 PM (GMT -7)   
"One dready at a time..." That's good. :0)

Misunderstood, if you've read the posts of Karen and Jamie, who both offer regular support to members here, allow me to reassure you that this is a place where people can come and be just who they are and just where they're at...unique to each person. I dont' see any reason for you to stop posting. It would be a bummer to deprive yourself of such a great place, so hope you'll stick around.

take care,

embers

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   Posted 5/22/2010 6:35 AM (GMT -7)   
Manyembers,

Just wanted to say that I am so happy to see you posting and I hope that it continues. You are such a special person and very wise.

Keep up the good work. So happy to see you on the forum.

Luv and hugs, Karen
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-Misunderstood-
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   Posted 5/22/2010 6:57 AM (GMT -7)   
.......thank you everyone...I don't know what to say. Thank you all for your caring sentiments, it has been helpful to read the posts. I have to say that I am usually a guy who will try not to cry in public(for whatever subconsciously instilled man thing), but a touching moment in a movie or show, when alone, will bring me to tears. Thank you for your post Harrington49, it literally brought me to tears reading it in the mood I was in...I almost felt what you were talking about, and just knowing that it's there is consoling. I think I'll keep posting, if for no other reason to help people who's problems I feel. In my first insane massive post I think I got out about everything, especially with the follow up post. I realize that i just need to secure some insurance and get to a pain clinic for my neck/back, I'm sure not being in constant pain will alleviate something. I think also that a therapist of some sort might be able help me deal with relating to the majority of people, that part I'm not so positive about, but I'll give it a shot. Thank you for your support everyone, harrington was surely right.

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   Posted 5/22/2010 7:08 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi -misunderstood-,

I am so happy that you decided to stay with us. I think you will learn that this is such a good place to come and post on. Be it venting, or giving advice. Your posts are greatly appreciated.

Harrington is wonderful isn't she? She is so kind and compassionate and very supportive. I am glad that you both are here on the forum.

Keep posting and letting us know how you are doing. The weekends are generally slow, but sometimes they aren't. But if you don't see a lot of new posts, that is why.

Know that you are a valued member here. And we all come together for the same reasons. Depression is so hard to cope with at times, and it is nice to know that you are not alone.

With that being said, I hope that you have a wonderful day today. Keep the faith!!!

Hugs, Karen
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-Misunderstood-
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   Posted 5/22/2010 7:45 AM (GMT -7)   
Thank you all for having me and taking on my problems as you have. And yes harrington is most certainly wonderful :). The way she put it was exactly what I needed to hear, the way I needed to hear it, oddly so. I did want to add a little tip for anyone looking to relax and make ones mood more positive. It is a band named Blackmore's Night, it is Ritchie Blackmore from Deep Purple with his wife who was a folk singer. Together they have created a beautiful medieval sounding folk music band with many albums. I find myself wanting to listen to it when trying to pull myself out of my lamenting. Also a guitarist Erik Mongrain, all instrumental and extremely skilled. I hope you enjoy

-Misunderstood-
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   Posted 5/22/2010 8:50 AM (GMT -7)   
I just wanted to add, listening to some Blues Traveler can also do wonders for your mood :), hehe Good Luck!

getting by
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   Posted 5/22/2010 8:55 AM (GMT -7)   
I love BluesTraveler...

Hugs, Karen

And the other music that you talked about sounds great. I use to be a huge fan of Deep Purple. I am old...
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-Misunderstood-
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   Posted 5/22/2010 9:54 AM (GMT -7)   
The music is all pretty good :) hehe and that is ok, I am old inside I've been told by many people, and now that I think of it also from my chiropractor lol, anyways age has little direct correlation to musical taste ;) Good music is good music, modern culture just doesn't have it right. I may be 24, but for me I feel that it has very little bearing on basically everything. Experiences make the person, hehe sometimes you just get them all crammed in early, sink or swim style. Haha I just looked as saw its noon, ahh the slings and arrows of insomnia, not even sure if there is a point to sleep now. *shrugs* more music it is

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   Posted 5/22/2010 10:05 AM (GMT -7)   
Sounds like you are kicking back today. Did you sleep last night? Do you suffer from insomnia at all? Try to get a nap in if you didn't sleep. But I know the feeling. Once it reaches a certain time, you are up for the day.

Take care,

Hugs, Karen
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-Misunderstood-
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   Posted 5/22/2010 10:19 AM (GMT -7)   
Yeah I am doing my best at the moment to induce a good mood. I did not sleep last night, and yeah I have been having pretty bad issues with insomnia, I'm usually up all night and sleep a few hours during the early afternoon. I might end up taking a nap if I feel tired, but at the moment I am pretty awake. While im waiting on this hernia surgury I can't do a whole lot, so I don't use much energy, and even before this I was a night owl always. Yeah and definitely once your up late enough it makes it harder to sleep, I might end up getting like 2-4 hours, but being noon as it is im not really sure if its worth it. Been posting for the past, jeeze, probably 3 hours I think, just listening to different bands on grooveshark.com, which is a great/comprehensive music source. (onto Steve Vai now)

harrington49
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   Posted 5/22/2010 4:07 PM (GMT -7)   
Hey Misunderstood

I am really happy you are staying, I'm glad I played a small part in that. This is absolutely the best site to be on, especially when you are feeling down because then you can see that you're not alone that there are others out there that either have similar issues to you or issues that you might be able to help with. To me, it feels like you are making a whole lot of new friends.

Look after yourself and I hope you finally get some sleep.
Harrington49


-Misunderstood-
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   Posted 5/23/2010 9:35 PM (GMT -7)   
I think it feels that way to me too :). And I'd say you did not play a small part in it, but an integral part. I am also happy that you are a part of the site that I found my way to. It may seem somewhat counterintuitive, but I have been thinking for a while about becoming a counselor. Having dealt with my mothers problems and also with my own, I believe I have the chance to help many people. As much as this was a place I came to looking for help when I first joined, I realize now it is a place where I can both exercise my hope of being a counselor and really help people while I do it. I believe I am going to be here for a while now, probably even after I become a counselor (if i do) because this is a great place where many people come needing help. Thank you all for taking me in and I can only hope to reciprocate it by doing the same for others, and to answer any question that I can.

THE HAPPY TURTLE
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   Posted 5/24/2010 12:34 AM (GMT -7)   
rock on mu. luv dp too, and i luv my axe-men, malstein, vai, tipton, wilde, sach, iommi, rhoads, hammett, mustaine, and one guy who is extremely talented and flies under the radar, prince. i am a metal head from way back. glad u are with us. jamie.
YESTERDAY IS A BUTTERLY WITHOUT WINGS. (ME)
 
DX, MDD, SEVERE BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER.
 
REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.


THE HAPPY TURTLE
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   Posted 5/24/2010 2:47 AM (GMT -7)   
YES!!! JAMIE.
YESTERDAY IS A BUTTERLY WITHOUT WINGS. (ME)
 
DX, MDD, SEVERE BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER.
 
REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.

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