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THE HAPPY TURTLE
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   Posted 5/28/2010 3:33 AM (GMT -7)   
tonight i went to see the lady at our venue. i had to walk out. her main carer is leaving her, apparently she has had enough. she was horribly late, i asked for a kiss, oh, i have already given you one. no i said, then she said i have the flu. i made a cuppa and she went to the smoking area that we do not go into, i walked in and she was coming out. her carer was breaking in a new girl, thus the main carer instructed her to take the lady to a new machine. pokie. i asked, what is up with her, my lady. i was told she was crapty upon being picked up. i passed her, my lady and said i am leaving. will see you next week when you are in a better mood. i understand that she is crapty with her main carer leaving, but she also needs to learn not to take it out on me. done some painting today. have worn teeth for half a day. slow and steady. sorry for venting. just hurt a tad. jamie.
YESTERDAY IS A BUTTERLY WITHOUT WINGS. (ME)
 
DX, MDD, SEVERE BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER.
 
REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.


THE HAPPY TURTLE
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   Posted 5/28/2010 4:59 AM (GMT -7)   
ps, i just can't do a claytons relationship. it's getting to me. jamie
YESTERDAY IS A BUTTERLY WITHOUT WINGS. (ME)
 
DX, MDD, SEVERE BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER.
 
REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.


THE HAPPY TURTLE
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   Posted 5/28/2010 6:58 AM (GMT -7)   
nono   nono nono nono nono nono nono nono nono nono nono nono nono   nono   nono

skull   skull   skull skull skull skull skull skull skull skull skull skull skull skull skull skull skull skull skull

my brain is in melt-down. this is pushing me beyond my breaking point!!! the straw that...................jamie. very tired.


YESTERDAY IS A BUTTERLY WITHOUT WINGS. (ME)
 
DX, MDD, SEVERE BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER.
 
REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.


getting by
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   Posted 5/28/2010 8:30 AM (GMT -7)   
Hey Jamie,

I am so sorry for what happened. Maybe your lady doesn't know how to seperate things, such as her disappointment with the carer and her relationship with you. I am sure she didn't realize that she hurt you. When she does, I bet that she is going to be sorry. I think you did the right thing by leaving and telling her that you will see her next week. It is hard, but you did it. I am sorry that she was in a bad mood and took it out on you. I hope that you are getting some rest.

Hugs, Karen
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Tirzah
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   Posted 5/28/2010 7:57 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi Jamie,
Sorry you went though such a lousy time with that lady. I know you're going through a lot lately.

Sending healing thoughts & prayers your way,
frances

THE HAPPY TURTLE
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   Posted 5/28/2010 10:52 PM (GMT -7)   
thx my HW buddies. would be lost without ya's. jamie.
YESTERDAY IS A BUTTERLY WITHOUT WINGS. (ME)
 
DX, MDD, SEVERE BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER.
 
REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.


loner
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   Posted 5/29/2010 8:45 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi Jannie,
I would ask you how its going but as I've already read you are having a pretty lowsy time of it,Well as you know life cant be a bed of roses all the time if it were we would all end up with sinus problems and wouldnt be able to enjoy them.So as it goes,you know how diffecult some people can be,but dont allow these people to control your day ultimately you are the one who can choose this.Think about this and process it and then file it under C.S. and move on to a new dillemma,it is these things that makes us the people who we are.
You are a wonderful person I know this to be true cause God made you in his own image to be the person you are now,unlike most things made now,God doese not make junk,he makes us to help each other when the going gets rough and he made us to care for one another,no matter how difficult it seems people makes us who we are by the way we act twords them or respond to them.personally I've seen and read nothing but good from you.you have encouraged me in many ways by your post and I myself am glad that there are people in this world like you
loner

getting by
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   Posted 5/29/2010 10:13 AM (GMT -7)   
Just wanted to say Hi Loner. You have given some wonderful advice to Jamie.

Hugs, Karen
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fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies


Aurora60
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   Posted 5/29/2010 6:59 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi Jamiee, just wanted to know I am thinking of you and hope things are going better for you. I think Loner gave you wonderful advice. Always remember Jamiee what a kind and special person you are. Yes, we all have our rough times but that is why we come here, to support  one and other. I hope you are more at peace and that things improve with your lady friend. You are too good a person to let this get you down. As you have told me, you too have much in your life to be thankful for. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
 
Gentle hugs,
 
Aurora

THE HAPPY TURTLE
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   Posted 5/29/2010 8:45 PM (GMT -7)   
thx karen, loner, aurora and frances. cheers, jamie.
YESTERDAY IS A BUTTERLY WITHOUT WINGS. (ME)
 
DX, MDD, SEVERE BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER.
 
REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.


THE HAPPY TURTLE
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Date Joined Mar 2009
Total Posts : 18747
   Posted 6/2/2010 9:27 AM (GMT -7)   
should be fine. will have a little chat with her fri. thx, how are you siobhan? here for ya. cheers, jamie.
YESTERDAY IS A BUTTERLY WITHOUT WINGS. (ME)
 
DX, MDD, SEVERE BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER.
 
REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.

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