i feel lke my friends hate me for some reason. am i paranoid or not?

should we still be friends?
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Conor A
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   Posted 7/6/2010 10:36 AM (GMT -7)   
im sorry if i have posted this in the wrong section as this was done before i have had a good look around the site but from what i have seen this describes my problem the best. My friend and i have risently split up and well to be frank ive known him for 7 years or so and in the last year he has gotten more grumpy but he is calling him self "depressed but refuses to se a phychiartrist, he was starting to ignore me more and more over the last month, he is making it feel like its my fault like im not a good friend, he seems to laugh when around other people but when i come to say hi he goes back to his "new" personality as he has never been like this, is it me or do you think i have done something to upset him?
 
should i break my freindship for good or try and help him?
 
Conor

annie.d12345
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   Posted 7/6/2010 11:30 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi Conor,

I'm really sorry to hear about the spilt between you and your friend. It must be hard for you considering I notice you seem very much attached and concerned about him !
I hope he isn't being grumpy around you to push you away. I understand your concern,but give him some space and time. He will eventually come out of it,and if he misses you,you both could be friends again.
You don't need to think about breaking friendship,friendships always remain. You be good to him and let him know that whenever he needs a friend you shall always be there by his side. Other than that try to deattach yourself from him for sometime,maybe the distance would make him miss you.
Try and make some new friends be around other people.

It will all be fine.

Love,
Annie
“Faith isn't faith until it's all you're holding on to”

Annie


getting by
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   Posted 7/6/2010 11:54 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi Conor,

Annie is right, just give him a little time. Maybe he is changing and in a transition of some sort. Or has met new people and that changed him. But he will probably always actually be your friend. Even if you don't talk to him for a while. I am sure that at some point he will be back in your life. So as was posted above, make some new friends in the meantime.
 
I wanted to add, I don't think your friend is intentionally avoiding you, and I don't think you are paranoid either, I just think that there are some changes going on and that you will get use to them with time.

Hugs, Karen


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fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies

Post Edited (getting by) : 7/6/2010 1:02:19 PM (GMT-6)


Conor A
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   Posted 7/9/2010 5:33 PM (GMT -7)   
ok thanks for the advice guys i am going to give him bit of space and let him know we can still be freinds when he wants.

getting by
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   Posted 7/9/2010 6:59 PM (GMT -7)   
That sounds like good thinking. If things are meant to change they will. And that is one thing we can always count on, change. What is meant to be will be. Have faith in that.

Best wishes,

Hugs, Karen
  Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
 
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies

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