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   Posted 7/10/2010 4:13 PM (GMT -7)   
i am new here and feeling really down i have not been to work all week and am most likely fired i just have such anger and sadness all the time i aslo have a nees to not want to be around anyone because i cannot stand for people to look at me or pay attention to me i do not feel good about myself and the fact that i might have lost my job is just making it worse because i am the one who called in all week without a legitimate reason and messed it as i always do for my family i am the only one working and i cannot talk do anyone i know because they think depression and mental illness is funny just needed to get some things off my chest skull
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getting by
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   Posted 7/10/2010 4:19 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi Desti31,

I started you a new thread because by tagging on somebody elses thread it may not have been seen. This way you will get replies. I do have to admit that the weekends are slow and you might not see many posts until the beginning of the week.

I have to say that I am sorry for your situation. But you must know that when you don't show up to work and you don't have a legitamate excuse, you stand the risk of losing your job. And if you were the sole supporter, I don't think that was a wise move on your part. I am sorry, but now what are you going to do? Maybe if you signed up with the department of human resources they would help you out until you found another job. That is if you lost this one. Are you going to go in on Monday and find out? Do you have children? A wife? Who all lives with you that you have to support? Does your wife work?

I know that I have a lot of questions, but I want to get the perspective on this. It looks like you have put yourself between a rock and a hard place. And I don't know what to tell you other than to get out there and find another job. I wish you luck with your situation. Let us know more about what is going on.

Hugs, Karen
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   Posted 7/11/2010 2:43 AM (GMT -7)   
Desti....please come back and talk some more. It was very nice of "getting by" to start a new thread for you, as I had not seen your post.

It does look like you have gotten yourself into a bit of a pickle....but today is a new day. Could you speak with your boss before you get fired? What type of work do you do? Perhaps you could go to your doctor and get a referral to a psychologist and get the time off you need to get better. It really sounds like you are quite depressed....and it's very hard to work when you are in that shape.

Tell us more about you, and we will try to help you by talking here.
DX fibromyalgia 2007, osteoarthritis, obsessive-compulsive disorder OCD, depression, anxiety, sleep apnea, hysterectomy.

fluoxetine (prozac), abilify, trazodone, lorazepam, nabumetone, hydrocodone, c-pap machine.

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