Remarried but missing my ex abusive husband. Why?

I think we get comfortable with situations, even if they are not good. That is probably why you miss him. But you don't deserve the abuse. So stay clear of him. Please do this for yourself. You will get over the lonliness and you will remain strong.

Best wishes,

Hugs, Karen

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Hi!
I understand you must feel there's something wrong with you, but as you said, he's the father of your child, your first love and "first" other person too... So I think I'd miss that person too. However, Karen is right and you should stay clear of someone who abused you!

Sometimes I find it useful to write a pretend letter to someone if I'm feeling a certain way but can't actually talk to them. Maybe try that, but don't send it, rip it up, and get rid of it.

I have the exact same problem...if anyone can help me understand why...please do!!!

Fruelien,

Welcome to the HealingWell Depression forum. I am sorry that you are going through this situation. I was thinking though if you start your own thread, you will most likely get advice to you. Tagging onto another thread often gets missed. So if you feel like it, please start a new thread with your own topic.

I hope that things get better for you.

Hugs, Karen

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  Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia