I know how you feel. I was married at 20 years old, and had three kids under the age of three (two were twins) before I hit 23 years old. My husband worked all day and for the first five years of our marriage, went from work to college every week day evening. After completing his Masters degree he announced he was going to start a PhD program. Uh...no...not in my lifetime. Anyway, this was before cable television, computers and the 24 hour a day cartoon channel. I lived in a small upstairs apartment with no car. During this time I had four major surgeries, including a complete hysterectomy. Owie. Anyway, the 'me time' is soooo important. I insisted on a second car and got the kids into a twice a week church pre school. It was amazing what those couple of days a week did for me and my kids. I got a babysitter once a week and took a pottery class. On weekends when the hubby was home, I took one day and visited friends. Don't wait any longer to make time for yourself. It's so easy to resent your life and those around you when you are overwhelmed, beaten down, and exhausted.