Believe me, you aren't too old for children. Taking care of your mom is important, but you do need a life. Does she have funds for a nursing home if you had to? Or is that something that you would not do? This is a hard decision, you should take this one day at a time. Did your girlfriend break up with you because of the child issue? Why did she break up?
It feels like there was a lack of communication there, is that possible? Let us know more. How come there is nobody else to help with your mom? Do you have any brothers or sisters? There is help that you can get while you keep her at home. That gives you time away to do things.
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