other depression sent these to me worst things to say to depressed person

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Having2LeftFeet
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   Posted 7/10/2005 7:43 AM (GMT -7)   
Now this is not me talking, it's her and personally I think she is a moron, but you can judge for yourself:
1.   What is your problem.
2.   Will you stop that constant whining.
3    Just kick yourself in the rear.
4.   Haven't you gotten tired of this me-me-me stuff?
5.   It's all in your mind.
6.   No one ever said life is fair.
7.   If you get stronger you will not have to wallow in it.
8.   Just grow up!
9.   You have so much to be thankful for and stop whining.
10.  You have everythig, why are you sad?
11. Happiness is a choice.
12. You think YOU have problems......
13. Well, at least it's not that bad.
14. I thought you were stronger than that!
15. There is always someone worse off than you!
16. You should get off all them pills!
17. You are what you think
18. You need to get out more.
19. Why can't you just be normal.
20. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
21. Qyit your %#@hing
22. Everything is tired of listening to you
23. Get a life.
24. Get a job.
25. Most people are as happy as they allow themselves
       to be.
26. You must have PMS.
27. Buy some new clothes to make you feel better
28. You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar
29. Why aren't you smiling anymore
30. The only one hurting yourself is you.
31. Take a nice hot bath.
32.You love to be the center of attention.
33. Why should I care?
34. Snap out of it!
35. Go away.
36. You are a drag.
37. No one listens to your anyway.
38. No one reads your posts cause they ate the same 
       over and over.
39. Try harder.
40. You are useless!
 
Now, can you believe that. There are 60 more. If you want them, I type them.
 
"Lefty" 
There is no such word as can't. Can't simply means wouln't. Grab as much as life as you can. Future is a long way away for those who don't believe. Don't build a foundation of life on sand. It will take it away with the tide. Love a little more, be unkind a lot less.


AlwaysRosie
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   Posted 7/10/2005 11:06 AM (GMT -7)   
Hey Sue,

Did someone send you these for 'encouragement' or as a joke??? I hope they weren't telling you this stuff trying to make things better. Yikes!

How are you feeling today. I know you've had a rough time recently.

Blessings!
In His Grip,
AlwaysRosie          "We can't control the waves, but we can learn to surf!"
Psalms 139
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   Posted 7/10/2005 10:44 PM (GMT -7)   
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Having2LeftFeet
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Date Joined Feb 2005
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   Posted 7/12/2005 8:18 AM (GMT -7)   
Sisters,
Isn't that the most outrageous stuff on "depression". O, there is much more but I wouldn't want to subject you to this hateful, cruel person. It was sent to me from another site that I have off of a long time ago. I think when I came here I mentioned it. This person had a axe to grind because I was showing signs of helping others and she and the other person that owned the site didn't want anyone to "upstage" them. "What is your problem" would really help a depressed person. I have never seen anyone on this board say anything cruel and hateful and that's why I'm still here in/out. Sometimes I think members get tired of me being so "helpful" instead of "sympathizing". I try to do both, boost their moral and tell them I am sorry they have to go through these things. Here's a few more.  "Most people are as happy as they allow themselves to be"? That's a good one. I have 100 of these things. "You're so selfish, you don't look depressed, you should wear nicer clothes, (I'm not kidding), get a job, get a life, why should I care how bad you feel, snap out of it, it's your own fault, you want to feel this way, Get off your arse and do something with your life, you think you have it bad, so you're depressed, so what". That's all I care to write. 
 
Why are people so cruel. Do you know it takes more effort to be mean than it does to be nice? You know what I say? I think this person needs to "GET A LIFE". That's why I stay and that's why I love you all..
 
Sue  
There is no such word as can't. Can't simply means wouln't. Grab as much as life as you can. Future is a long way away for those who don't believe. Don't build a foundation of life on sand. It will take it away with the tide. Love a little more, be unkind a lot less.


taintedangel
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Date Joined Jun 2005
Total Posts : 303
   Posted 7/12/2005 9:48 AM (GMT -7)   
unfortuantely i think most of us have heard those things from time to time from family and friends. I know I have. My husband is slowly but surely being more supportive of things lately. I hate to say that I've heard him say those things to me before in the past but he hasn't in a long time. Not since this last spell I had when he truly got to see the down and depressed side of me. Which typically i don't let him see and I think it really scared him. I wasn't trying to scare him. He just happened to be coming home when I was falling apart. No connection to my depression its just timing. I'm glad he was home though. I sometimes think my family (mom and dad) feel that way about all this at times that's the thing though like they say you can't just snap out of depression. even if you feel slightly better its still there lingering. It is with me. I'm rammbling and i'm sorry. i love this site though. Its nice being able to talk and share among people that truly do understand what i'm going through. it has helped.

Having2LeftFeet
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Total Posts : 472
   Posted 7/13/2005 6:20 AM (GMT -7)   
Thanks SC,
I don't if she is lurking or what. It must really erking her to come and follow me to hunt me down like a wild animal. She is definately bi-polor. I'm so tired I can't keep my eyes open. Hand a bad night. I am not going to let this PERSON, (the Lord is watching me) and allow her to "rain on my parade". Thanks so much for your everlasting support.
 
"Lefty"
SUE
There is no such word as can't. Can't simply means wouln't. Grab as much as life as you can. Future is a long way away for those who don't believe. Don't build a foundation of life on sand. It will take it away with the tide. Love a little more, be unkind a lot less.


AlwaysRosie
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   Posted 7/13/2005 8:08 PM (GMT -7)   
Sleep well tonight sis. This person is not worth losing an ounce of energy over.

Blessings!
In His Grip,
AlwaysRosie          "We can't control the waves, but we can learn to surf!"
Psalms 139
UCTD (Undifferentiated Connective Tissue Disease), Hashimoto's, Plantar Fasciitis, Inflamatory Arthritis, High BP, GI Inflamation, Diverticuloses
Plaquenil, Methotrexate, Metanx, Synthroid, RX Motrin, Lexapro, Amitriptelyne, Salagen, Lotrel

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