Post Edited By Moderator (Admin) : 8/16/2005 11:53:28 AM (GMT-6)
Sorry you feel left out but sometimes I let my head speak for my me instead of my heart. I have had some rough times and the members here and not responsible for that. I love them all and depend on their input and support to hang on. My husbands best advice to me is "Mind your own business". He says it at least once a day whether I need it or not. Sometimes we may tend to blame others for our shortcomings to make it easier to get ourselves off the hook if you know what I mean. I know that is wrong as I know that's not what the Lord wants me to say, think or do. He is the center of my life and without Him I am empty. Life's lessons lost can be traumatic, however, there is always something better at the end of the rainbow. Don't stop posting or reading. Like our own Rosie says, people are going in different directions now and will come together again soon. Try not to feel deserted cause like me, we are only as lonely as we allow ourselves to be!
Welcome to Healingwell. I wanted to give you a couple suggestions my therapist gave me on the self injury problem. Try using ice held on the place you where planning on cutting this will still give you results that might help. She also told me to imagine I'm riding a wave. You're on a surf board and all your troubles are under you on the surf board. Just focus on seeing the land that you are riding the board to. You ride the wave until the urge to self harm goes away.
Take care and again welcome to Healingwell.
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