I haven't been around much lately, off licking my wounds, but I am as guilty as the rest. There have been times that I very few replies and it bothers me, however, I have turned my thinking on to others rather than myself. Everyone needs attention and if they come to the group and have issues and don't have anyone to unload to, we are basically responsible for what happens to them. So, my friend, I take as much blame so give me one of your fingers, (just not the middle one)!
There is no such word as can't. Can't simply means wouln't. Grab as much as life as you can. Future is a long way away for those who don't believe. Don't build a foundation of life on sand. It will take it away with the tide. Love a little more, be unkind a lot less.