You sound very much like a dear friend of mine. I am tempted to believe that the pot is the problem. In my friend's case it was definately the problem and the paranoya went with it.
You have really taken a huge step by writing out your feelings. Have you thought of talking to a counseler about this?? Maybe a professional would have some good answers for you. Meanwhile, I hope that some of the other members here can give some advice.
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