Welcome, I see hope in your Soul from your choice of member name.
As you know drinking with meds is a disaster waiting to happen. I hope you have told your doc that you are an alcoholic so they can help you properly.
Sunny, I am going to suggest something. There is no such things as "can not be helped". A person can heal if they choose to what help. I am going to give you links to programs non-regligous based. If, and I hope with all my heart to do, find one; then propose a deal with your partner.
"I dry out, you get help for your hoarding, we BOTH go to therapy. Together of apart. "
I would like you to know that in the United States, which it sounds like where you live, there are so many options for addiction recovery it is mind boggling and a little disheartening for those of us that suffer from trauma, PTSD and unknown depression factors.
I hope to take advantage of the opportunities. Also, hoarding is a addiction.
Here are the links:www.recovery.org/topics/alcohol-and-drug-addiction-recovery/www.addictioncareoptions.com/www.cdc.gov/alcohol/about.htm
some on hoarding:www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/hoarding-disorder/basics/definition/con-20031337mentalhealthtreatment.net/hoarding/
Moderator - Depression
"...when the gift of sight is cause enough for jubilation."
Billy Collins from the poem. HIGH
DX: reverse Trigeminal Neuralgia;Cluster headaches; Atypical face pain;Hemicrania Continua; raynauds;complex PTSD; recurring MDD,disassociative disorder;