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theHTreturns...
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   Posted 6/20/2017 4:14 AM (GMT -6)   
sometimes we are too harsh on ourselves, and a lot of us are our own worst enemy. i had a reality check when a dear friend said, 'you are enough'. wow, still blows me, but in a good way. i thought i was ready to go med free (psych) and i am, but not my brain, and i thought, this is okay. i realised that i am giving things a good crack in the w.i.p department, thus i gave myself the needed self compassion. having worked hard on boundaries, and with clear success i can say with certainty that my development is on the rise. still a complex bugger-even though this has been intrinsic all of my life it is a part of me and i am okay with it. i am asking more, and surprisingly receiving more, thus improving my efficacy and faith back into some elements of society.

BnotAfraid
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   Posted 6/20/2017 1:16 PM (GMT -6)   
Good Job mate!

Working on self-compassion and/or self-kindness leads to enlightenment along these lines.
Some days we are conquering heroes, others days we are back using old survival skills triggered by one simple phrase.

Always a work in progress.

All days are grist for the mill.

Peace
Trina
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"...when the gift of sight is cause enough for jubilation."
Billy Collins from the poem. HIGH

DX: reverse Trigeminal Neuralgia;Cluster headaches; Atypical face pain;Hemicrania Continua; raynauds;complex PTSD; recurring MDD,disassociative disorder;

theHTreturns...
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   Posted 6/20/2017 8:48 PM (GMT -6)   
cheers. and well put. thx.

theHTreturns...
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   Posted 7/3/2017 4:58 AM (GMT -6)   
very quiet. a bit too much. but then my peace is the better for it, however some company now and then would be nice, oh well. go with the flow i guess.

ambling
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   Posted 7/3/2017 7:07 AM (GMT -6)   
Company is nice... and It's sometimes nice to have your space ;)
We are social animals for the most part, not happy with too much isolation.
All the best.

wearyRAsufferer
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   Posted 7/5/2017 7:43 PM (GMT -6)   
Hey HT

It's no surprise to me I am my own worst enemy
Cause every now and then I kick the living crap out of me

sigh

Hope you have found peace

All my best
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