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sarah:)
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   Posted 1/4/2006 5:15 AM (GMT -7)   
eyes  i have recently moved back in with my mam as i was in foster care but now my mam is not the same as when we would meet for contact. shes started to leave me in the house on my own and started to act as f i was not even there i mean yeah i am a cow sometimes but God i dont deserve this. i have thought about ending my life as there is nothing t lok forward for until i met my boyfriend i love hima dn he loves me but hes my first serious boyfirend as i used to get bored i fear the same will happen so i am down please what should i do thanks sad

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   Posted 1/4/2006 11:06 AM (GMT -7)   
Wanted to welcome you to the HW family. What are you doing to face the life circumstances you talked about? I kow it is very difficult to do, but I really try and find peace and happiness within myself and not from those around me. Breaking the co-dependent cycle is very difficult but is well worth it. Good luck and I hope you find the answers you are looking for.
We can respond to irritation with a smile instead of scowl, or by giving warm praise instead of icy indifference. By our being understanding instead of abrupt, others, in turn, may decide to hold on a little longer rather than to give way. Love, patience, and meekness can be just as contagious as rudeness and crudeness.
 
Randy
 
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ShynSassy
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   Posted 1/4/2006 12:56 PM (GMT -7)   
Sarah
How old are you may I ask? Are you in school? If so you need to talk to a school counsler,let them know what is happening. You have been through alot already and need to start healing. I'm assuming that you were put in foster care for a reason that is a direct result of your mom. So,remember this..she is the adult and you are the child and it's her job to make sure you are safe and happy and if she can't do that then maybe you should not be there for your own saftey. Ask for help Sarah you deserve it.
You can email me at anytime I'll do the best I can as a mom to help you.
Sgoben@cfu.net
Stay Safe!
Don't worry about the world ending,it's already tomorrow in Australia!


sarah:)
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   Posted 1/5/2006 2:34 AM (GMT -7)   
hey shynsassy i am 16 nearly 17 but i am too mature for me age as what i have been through i just wanna be young again and not growing up as fast as i am do you understand? thanks for your help i really appreciate it xx :-)

ShynSassy
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   Posted 1/5/2006 9:22 AM (GMT -7)   
your welcome and good luck to you
Don't worry about the world ending,it's already tomorrow in Australia!


Jezz
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   Posted 1/20/2006 9:53 AM (GMT -7)   
What did you mean by "yeah i am a cow sometimes "?
 


els
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   Posted 1/20/2006 12:40 PM (GMT -7)   

Hi Sarah,   I would really listen to what Randy has posted.  You said that your mom leaves in the house on your own but you are 16 almost 17, shouldn't you be able to stay on your own.  Unless you mean that she is leaving for several days at a time.... than this is different.    It almost sounds like when you don't live together you get along but when you do you both find ways to pick or get at each other.  Maybe you can suggest to your mom going to counseling together.  Whatever the case is you need to communicate to her your feelings.  Hurting yourself is NOT the answer.  Please let us know how it goes.  ~elisha

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