I read your original post and tried to contact your e-mail. The things that you said are exactly what my husband said this week. The only thing is he doesn't think he is depressed. He has moved out. Unlike you though we have 3 children ages 8, 5, and 3. He had an affair before he left and he told our 5-year-old that "Daddy did a bad thing and doesn't deserve to be married to Mommy." How are things now with your husband? I filed for divorce becasue that is what he said that he wanted but now I am wondering if it isn't just the depression talking. I will take any suggestions that I can get.