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Crystal W
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Date Joined Apr 2006
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   Posted 4/27/2006 10:23 AM (GMT -7)   
Is it me or Willow?

sick of meds
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Total Posts : 118
   Posted 4/27/2006 10:30 AM (GMT -7)   
    Hi there ,what seems to be the problem here .You said that no one listens to you and what got me is ,is it me or Willo.If I knew what was wrong I would listen to you ,but I don,t know what,s wrong .

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Crystal W
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Date Joined Apr 2006
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   Posted 4/27/2006 10:34 AM (GMT -7)   
Thankyou so much for coming. Willow is my dead sister. Everyone adores her and despises me.

sick of meds
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   Posted 4/27/2006 10:47 AM (GMT -7)   
    Hi ,I,m really sorry about your sister passing away and it hurts me to hear you say they adore your sister and not you .Why are you putting your self down so much .There are peolpe here that will listen to you ,but you have to give them time to respond to your post .I want to help you if I can.

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Crystal W
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   Posted 4/27/2006 10:50 AM (GMT -7)   
Thankyou so much. But with our family it's a bit confusing. The problem stems from the fact that i am illegitimate, so the whole family automatically sees me as a mistake. i am the result of my mums brief fling with another man and my dad (sorry, stepdad) hasny really forgiven her, though he says he has. willow was his and he adored her. hes got 2 sons from his 1st marriage and he adores them too

sick of meds
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   Posted 4/27/2006 12:18 PM (GMT -7)   
   Hi Crystal, your not a illegitimate honey and please don,t blame your self for your mom,s fling she had with some one ,i,ts not your fault .Your going through a very rough time right now with your family it seems .Please stop blaming yourself and putting your self down ,it,s not good for you .What ever is taking place now is not your problem .I,m trying to help you honey .Your very depressed and you feel lonely because your thinking everyone ignores you for some reason ,and it,s not from your sister,sdeath .Your stepfather loves you ,but he,s seems to be having a problem ,not you .your so young and very upset about what,s going on with your family and your sister,s death .I hope and pray that you understand what i,m saying and Ihope I was able to help you out some .Your in my prayers ,God bless.

      sick of meds


Crystal W
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Date Joined Apr 2006
Total Posts : 17
   Posted 4/27/2006 12:37 PM (GMT -7)   
Thankyou so much. God bless you too.

james73
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Date Joined Oct 2005
Total Posts : 200
   Posted 4/27/2006 12:50 PM (GMT -7)   
hey Crystal just wanted to welcome you here ,I have'nt been around much lately ,I was a middle child and always felt like I was fighting for everyones attention and love ,I was a bad kid trying to get attention .
The thing is one day I stopped trying so hard actually stopped all-togeather tying to get attention ,and realized that my parents loved me ,I just didnt see it ...I think your parents love you ,just be patient

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.


Crystal W
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Date Joined Apr 2006
Total Posts : 17
   Posted 4/27/2006 12:53 PM (GMT -7)   
Thankyou James. Do you beleieve in God?

james73
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   Posted 4/27/2006 12:58 PM (GMT -7)   
why do you ask

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.


james73
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Date Joined Oct 2005
Total Posts : 200
   Posted 4/27/2006 1:10 PM (GMT -7)   
I see the poem eh!!well the poem is something I picked up in A.A it is so simple if yyou live by those simple words life is so easy. As for believing in God I do ..but I also learned you have to let yourself believe and not want to believe ....I admit I do not attend church on a regular basis ,but yeah I believe

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.


sick of meds
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Date Joined Apr 2006
Total Posts : 118
   Posted 4/27/2006 1:14 PM (GMT -7)   
    Hi Crystal ,I truely believe and I no there is a God ,and he want,s to help you and love you honey .Do you believe in God .If you do he,s always there for you ,he promises us that he will never leave nor forsake us .

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jmjmon
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Date Joined Apr 2006
Total Posts : 15
   Posted 4/27/2006 10:32 PM (GMT -7)   
Crytal,
I am sorry about your sister, and all the negative affects it has had on you. I have not lost a sibling, but one of my best friends has. I remember him having the feelings that you had almost exactley. It carried on for quite a while. He described it as having the "show" stolen away from him. There are no diagrams for how the grieving process works, other than everyone goes through it. Family, friends, everyone. Your family is going through it, as well as you. There is no time table. The thing that helped my buddy was the support from his friends. It took him a while but eventually he opened up and talked with us. Talk with your friends. They will be there for you.
Please stay strong and keep posting.

sincerely,
Jm

hope3
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Date Joined Feb 2006
Total Posts : 216
   Posted 4/28/2006 11:19 PM (GMT -7)   
Crystal , Hi its me again I just read some of your other posts that I didnt read before I reponded to the one I read. You are very young, but you will get through this. We are here to help you and if I sounded like I was giving you a speech in my other post I apologize. It wasnt my intent to hurt you, only help you. Im sorry to hear about the troubles you are having at home. You are never alone just pray to God for strength and He will help you. God Bless!
 


geniebottle
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Date Joined Apr 2006
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   Posted 5/2/2006 1:28 PM (GMT -7)   
sad  hi hope  i always listen  if you want you can talk to me here?  ok?

hope3
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Date Joined Feb 2006
Total Posts : 216
   Posted 5/4/2006 6:24 PM (GMT -7)   
Thank you geniebottle, it helps to know someone cares. And I want to say the same goes for you, if you want to talk Im here for you. Thank You so much .God Bless!
 

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