So much as happend, my brother is still depressed, drinking and still has anger issues. He went to therapy last Monday, and supposed to go again this Friday. He gets angry over the smallest things, calls me which is good he can vent to me, then calls me 2 hours later vent, calls me the next day vent. Depression is such a long process, sometimes I feel like I don't have help. His future wife is going to therapy with him, he kept his anger issue under control while my dad was here. His son is visiting his granddad, I had to make him go, he did not want to leave. When he vents, the first two times, I can listen and be understanding and give an objective opinion, but after the 3rd and 4th time, I don't want to hear it anymore, because he is not hearing me. This illness,affects the entire family and not just the ones who live with you but the ones who love you too.