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   Posted 9/4/2006 11:28 AM (GMT -6)   
xxlucexx said...i am only 15 and i recently lost my dad to cancer just 7 months ago. i feel extremly down and depressed all the time and it doesn't go away.

to make things worse i fell out with my group of freinds and now only have a few girl friends becuase the rest of them are boys. so i am worried about going back to school.

my boyfriend also has been told things that i have supposedly done. none of which are true. its my old group of friends who are saying things and i am worried i will lose him like everything else in my life.

me and my mom aren't speaking after a severe argument she has grounded me and took away my mobile fone . also becuase of this my sister isnt't speaking to me

i am so lost and unsure what to do

anyone got any ideas with any of my problems?

Hi xxlucexx, Welcome to Healing Well forum.  I have started a new thread for your post so everyone would be sure to see it and reply.
I am so sorry about your father, I am sure that is very difficult for you to deal with.  I am wondering if you have spoken to your mom about how depressed you have been feeling?
The thing with depression is that it can make us do things and say things that we normally wouldn’t do.  Even if it is situational depression which would be something brought on by a traumatic event...such as losing a parent. 
I don’t know what kind of relationship you have with your mom and I am sure she is also going through a lot dealing with losing her husband in such a way but I would suggest talking to her about your feelings.  If for some reason you feel that you cant than maybe writing her a letter explaining it would be better.  Some grief counseling sounds like it would help greatly in my opinion.
As for your boyfriend, all I can say is hopefully he will see that you no longer hang with these other girls and they are trying to cause you trouble for some reason.  I don’t know the situation but if you have explained it to him then he will need to trust you and believe that you have told him the truth.
I am sure that others will be along with some additional suggestions for you.  Please do let us know how you get along.  Take care :-)


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   Posted 9/4/2006 11:57 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi xxlucexx

Welcome to the Healing well forum.
Els has given you some great advice and I too would like to say how sorry I am about your father. I understand this must be a difficult time for you right now. Have you recieved any grief counselling? If you are finding things hard to cope with you could ask your doctor for a referral for some grief counselling which may help.

I hope that your return to school goes smoothly. Girls can sometimes be very cruel and Im sure your boyfriend will listen to you rather than them. Go back to school, hold your head up high knowing you havent done anything wrong. Good luck with everything and keep in touch with us here and let us know how you get on.
Try not to worry too much about school. stay with the friends who are close to you and take care.
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