I am sorry you and your wife are hurting.
I noted that your wife was worse after a trip home. Is there a chance she may have suffered abuse? Along with depression, I have PTSD ........Things I have repressed for 40 years are now surfacing. These memories have caused my worst bout of depression resulting in my hospitalization.
Please let me know if I can help in any way.
Major Depression, Anxiety/Panic Disorder, ADHD, Binge Eating Disorder, PTSD, Degenerative Disc Disease (post 3 Surgeries including Fusion), Advanced Osteoarthritis, Fibromyalgia, Interstitial Cystitis, IBS, GERD, Larngopharyngeal Reflux
God, Please Grant Me,
The Serenity to accept the things I cannot change, The Courage to change the things that I can,
and The Wisdom to know the difference……….Just for Today