Hi TEYA, Welcome to healing well forum, we are happy to have you join us here. It does indeed sound as if you and your family have been though so very much. I am very sorry and saddened by your situation. Let me just tell you that my little brother was always in so much trouble as a kid. Even as a teenager he landed himself in jail a few times but my mom was always able to get him out due to good lawyers and perhaps a friendship with the sheriff (I dont know). What I do know is that many of his offences should of landed him in prision for at least a few 5 yr terms but didnt. He is 29 now and just now struggling to grow up. He has 5 children 6 if you count his girlfriends prior one, has finally stopped doing illicit drugs, and is trying to control his temper (domestic violence againce his g-friend). Funny how the oddest thing came out of his mouth the other day was that he wished our mom had not bailed him out so much and let him learn those lessions the hard way...as he should of, things would of been so much differant I am sure. I can only hope that your children learn from their mistakes and grow from them as well.
I dont so much know about everything happening for a reason. Sometimes it seems it does then other times it seem utterly impossible. I just think we have to do the best with what we are dealt. Please do know that we are always here and your more then welcome to continue to post...Take care
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