Hi Chad, what a wonderful thing to do. You picked yourself up, brushed yourself off and now you are offering your shoulder to others. You have a good heart. Don't forget that.
Oh, and, about your post saying that "you already caused a divorce." STOP. That's not true. We all have a path to go down in life. Your parents too. You cannot be the "cause" of someone else's unhappiness. Life is about lessons to be learned and different challenges are placed in our lives. So, don't give that another thought. I'm sure that their are albums with Christmas pictures and big smiles. You caused those smiles too. Okay?
"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference. Amen."