Hi Yellow star
First of all welcome to the board,I am really glad you found us.
Wow,what a mess to have to go through. I am very sorry you are experiencing this.
I am no expert in marriage or relationships period as I myself have been divorced.
But, I am going to be honest here...after reading your post I kept going back to why is that other woman even talking to your husband about
your personal problems? That to me is fishy. If he did not have his wedding ring on around her,well then I am sorry but something is not right.
At some point you have to watch out for you. Listening to him tell you he is not happy with you that is not healthy at all.
Me being a woman and a darn stubborn one at times,would tell him "ok fine" then I am not going to be around someone that is not happy with me".And walk
You can not fix him,it is not your job. He went into this marriage telling you that he would stick with you forever,he made a promise to you and he is breaking it.
I suggest counseling for yourself at this point. You have got to get healthy and be able to face whatever is coming next.
If he refuses to get help with his depression,that is not your problem.
I don't mean to sound mean here,I just think that at some point he needs to get a clue,and if you just walk out then maybe he will get one.
If he does not,then is he really worth it?
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