Ok we are entering a new problem here.
First of all,I need to tell you that I was married for 13 years,so I do have experience in this matter( just wanted to clarify that I was not just running off at the mouth lol)
Talking to some guy,not being able to stop thinking about
him ect ect, I do not think has anything to do with the "present" depression.
It is not a "symptom" of depression my friend. She needs to get a clue, simple as that.
I am not sure if the other members will agree with me or not here,but I guess I just need to say it.
You need to put your foot down with this. She went into this marriage promising to be faithful,and she is not doing it.
Turn the cell phone off,that is your right. Tell her it needs to end now,because she has no right to disrespect you like this.And she has a baby so she should be focusing on that and not another man.
I am sorry if I sound harsh,but ... cheating is not something I have any patience for. It is not fair to anyone.
And blaming it on depression is a total cop out.
I have had depression since I was 12 years old,and never stepped out on anyone. And would never do it because I have too much respect for myself.
Another thing...you can not blame the other guy totally. He is not the one that is married. So if a gal is going to call him on the phone and show any interest in him at some point he is not going to think about
her "other life" because he is not the one stepping out.
You might want to consider counseling just for yourself. I really think that you could easily fall into depression because of all this and that is not fair.
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