Hi chico, Welcome to healing well forum. I am sorry for all you and your wife are going through. I have a few questions if you dont mind? I was wondering if you live somewhere other than the US? You said that your wife has been on many antidepressants but none seems to help? Correct? What kind of physician is prescribing her medications...family physician or psychiatrist?
The reason why I am asking all these questions is that depending on what country you do live in mental health varies greatly. If your wife isnt seeing a psychiatrist then she should be at least for the management of her medications. Sometimes it is possible for us to get miss diagnosed and or given medication that is either insufficent or can cause more mood problems then we started off with.
Having said that, you might want to think about just sitting down with your wife and having a calm discussion regarding these issues. Yes, a person who has depression is most likely to take most comments as critizim so you might want to think about things you want to say and how to word them right so you dont hurt her feelings but still do let her know that her behavior is making it difficult for you also. You shouldnt have to live in an enviornment of anger regardless of the cause of it.
I am sure other members will be along shortly to post some suggestions to you also. Let us know how your doing and keep posting. Take care
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