Sounds like my ex husband.
My son started showing signs of either ADHD or Bi Polar at 5 years old. My ex and I would fight for hours about
me taking him to the doctor. At that time Ritalin was big,and his response was "my son is not going to be on drugs"
Well 6 years later I was rushing him to the hospital because he had taken a baseball bat and told me he wanted to kill me. Thinking that I was a horrible mom,I expected the worse but was willing to take the blame as long as he got help.
They had to strap him down to a bed,and then proceeded to take picture of my back and legs where he had kicked,hit and shoved me against the wall several times in the last few weeks.
THEN and only then did I get help with him.
People go into denial,and they can not accept what they don't understand.
I wish you the best for her,but if she has been living like that for so long I am not sure there is anything that you can say,that she will at least admit to.
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Meds I have taken throughout the years:Wellbutrin,Tranxene,Paxil,Prozac,Valium,
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