awww hunni. Thats a lot for an adult to cope with let alone a 13 yr old. My sister had a spell where she was very badly behaved at school which got worse around the time of my parents divorce. I can relate to your story on several levels and this really helps me undertstand. My advice is seek some kind of councelling either through your doctor or directly through the hospital (If you can). Have you tried talking to your mum about these things? If talking to someone is going to make you feel better, your mum could be the answer seeing as she is part of the issue and she will understand more about what was happening at the time that a doctor.