Welcome to Healing Well. Are you feeling like a pitbull with lipstick? :)
I don't think it is mental, IMHO, I think you need a trip back to the GYN and tell he/she that this appears to be abnormal and you need some help here.
May was a long time ago already and your right, you may need a D & C or some kind of procedure.
Advocate for yourself, Maudie, and remember patients have rights.
If this physician won't listen to you, then perhaps you need to find a new one.
Good Luck and I am sure this whole business is contributing to the tears and anxiety.
Darn it girl, you have a great sense of humor, hang on to that. I have always said I am thankful that I have a sense of humor as I can laugh at myself.
My husband wants to hustle me back to therapy everytime I am a bit down even thow I tell him I will have times that are not so good and then I will be fine.
You made the right choice in saying no to the Birth Control pills.
Keep posting and know we support you.