Post Edited (Darkies Gem) : 7/25/2007 12:28:25 PM (GMT-6)
Whoa sweetie, you are going through a rough time, I sure agree with that. I understand the sadness and also the anger. But let me ask, who is driving this bus, you or your Mom?
It should be you and I would like you to throw paper plates when your angry and get that out.
Then sit down and make a list for the wedding and how YOU want it to go. It is your wedding. Invite your Mother to have a nice calm conversation about how you can work things out so it is a win-win situation.
I suspect your Mother knows how to push your buttons and knocks you self esteem into low gear.
People who have poor self-esteem tend to focus on and magnify their perceived shortcomings, and ignore their strengths and achievements. It's like looking into the mirror and seeing a warped picture - a bit like the ones at fun parks that make you look distorted - completely blowing reality out of proportion.
Post Edited (stkitt) : 7/25/2007 3:03:55 PM (GMT-6)
Good Afternoon Gems
How are you doing? I hope you have had a chance to sort out the wedding issues and please keep posting when you can. We are here for you.
Your in my prayers.
Hugs to you.
Hope you made it to the physicians ok and are doing better. Keep drinking if you can't eat and stay hydrated, could be the cause of your dizziness......not enough fluids.
I am thinking of you so please know you are special.
Lots of gentle hugs.
Kudos for you and I am glad your feeling better. I love bright colors too so make sure you get that picture, then print it and put it out where you can look at it and see what a good day looks like...............
Sitting outside having a lovely lunch sounds devine. I cannot sit in direct sunlight either but once in awhile I do for a few minutes.
Enjoy your whole week-end. You have many happy hugs and my support.