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starbrite
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   Posted 10/19/2007 12:13 PM (GMT -7)   
Just talked to my cousin, she is my best friend just like a sister i love her.  She was only suppose to live six months a year ago.  She could only talk a few minuets she is so weak.  she is in agony.  she wants to die.  Why won't God take her why why why why?  no one should have to live like she is now NOBODY.  i am crying so hard i am almost hysterical i am crying because she is still alive she needs to go.  what can i do?  she lives far far away.   i love her so much  she taught me how to put on make up, how to smoke everything i didn't know and all the stuff my mom should have told me.   what can i do

Another Day
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   Posted 10/19/2007 11:04 PM (GMT -7)   
starbrite,
 
I think God will take her when he feels the time is right.  Until then, just keep talking to her as much as you can, even if she can only listen.  I'm sorry that you live too far away to go and see her.  The two of you have been very lucky and have shared a great love.
 
I stopped and prayed for the two of you.  I can tell you are also in so much emotional pain.  I wish you could be there with her.  I will continuing praying for you all.  Please keep us posted.
 
Love and Prayers,
 
Carla

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stkitt
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   Posted 10/20/2007 4:09 PM (GMT -7)   

Dear Starbrite,

I am so very sorry that your wonderful cousin is suffering.  I feel the pain you are also going through. I can not tell you why God acts in mysterious ways but I pray that your cousin is being medicated to keep the pain away.

Let your tears flow and know your cousin has been blessed to have you in her life as you have been to be fortunate to share such a special relationship with this woman.

Your in my prayers as well as your cousin.


Respectfully
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starbrite
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   Posted 10/20/2007 6:06 PM (GMT -7)   
Thank you I do believe in the power of prayer.

Another Day
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   Posted 10/21/2007 11:27 PM (GMT -7)   
Starbrite,
 
How is your cousin doing?
 
Love and prayers,
 
Carla

Moderator, Allergies/Asthma
 
 
Epilepsy, asthma, GERD, depression, hypothyroidism


starbrite
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   Posted 10/22/2007 7:31 AM (GMT -7)   
she is not doing good i am very low   part of the problem is that her husband will not let her go    i am going to my psychatrist today maybe start on new meds.

bionca
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   Posted 10/23/2007 2:14 PM (GMT -7)   
Starbrite,

I lost my sister in law who I was very close to just a couple of years ago. I really feel for you since I have been in your shoes. Sometimes people just don't let go for whatever reason is in their hearts. Always let your cousin know that you are there and that you love her. When it is her time, she will move on. If you feel the need to cry your heart out, then by all means do so. You never forget people you love and so you shouldn't. Please keep us posted on how both of you are doing and remember, if you need us, we're here for you.
Diagnosed with chronic fatigue syndrome, Epstein-Barr virus, and severe depression. Have been on Prozac, cylexa, Effexor, and Wellbutrin. Currently, I am prescription free and doing well.


starbrite
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   Posted 10/23/2007 2:41 PM (GMT -7)   
Thank you everyone. Everything is about the same except i did a lot of crying and that helped a lot. I sent her a holloween bouqet of flowers she should get them today. She just means so much to me, she was the only one i could turn too when we were growing up. I went to the psychatrist yesterday she put me on Seroquel because i haven't been sleeping. Now I am on Wellebutrin, Klonopin, Seroquel. Too much medicine I slept all day today so i'm not going to stay on the Seroquel. Sometimes i wonder if those doctors know what they are doing they seem to want to keep giving you more and more meds. There is no pill for grief.

Thank you everyone again.

Starbrite

Another Day
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   Posted 10/23/2007 8:07 PM (GMT -7)   
Starbrite,
 
Please just keep checking in and letting us know how you are doing.  You know we care about you here.  You are part of our family and we love you.
 
Love and prayers to you, your cousin and her husband,
 
Carla

Moderator, Allergies/Asthma
 
 
Epilepsy, asthma, GERD, depression, hypothyroidism

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