Post Edited (MMMNAVY) : 11/16/2007 6:35:45 AM (GMT-7)
Post Edited (ShynSassy) : 11/17/2007 5:50:18 AM (GMT-7)
I have to be careful how I answer this one since we have minors using the site but I love a challenge! So if my answer sounds a bit vague, its not because I dont know what im talking about, its because I cant use the phrases I want to!
Take it slowly and build it up. Start with simple stuff like cuddling etc... As you move on make it more intimate and more adventurous. Perhaps re-explore each other. After that, consider foreplay. Once you are at a stage where you can make love, role play is a good way to get things going as you can be who you want to be. If your feeling adventurous start to discuss each others fantasy and act it out. Its great because when you dress up, you become someone else and it is easier to detach from your own inhibitions.
I hope this helps
depression eats at the core of who you are and society reinforces this, my one recomendation is that if you are nothing else be her soft place to fall...she might need unconditional positive reguard from you right now, but then again don't we all need uncondtional positive reguard sometimes... especially from those we love...
Perhaps the story of "johnny lingo and his eight cow wife" might help...so might want to google that
I will add one more thing please don't blame this on her depression, given the situation that you cited any woman (even ones who do not stuggle with depression) would have had a negitive response to your action/approach.
I really feel uncomfortable saying anything more...this is a theraputic issue
Post Edited (MMMNAVY) : 11/17/2007 4:42:02 PM (GMT-7)