Post Edited (ShynSassy) : 12/1/2007 5:45:42 AM (GMT-7)
Hi this is Kitt and I have been reading your posts and I believe I have posted to some.
I am so glad you are making a positive step for you. Moving 1000 miles away and starting over with a new job is so right for you.
I am sorry your friend is sad about the break but please remember you did not ruin her life. You saved your own. You are not responsible for the feelings of others and know you cannot change someone else, you can only change yourself.
IMHO your friend may be trying to control you with her threats of self harm. She needs counseling and a therapist who will help her get her own life back on track.
My prayers are with you, Dark, now head out on that highway. Drive careful. Keep posting, we are all here for you.
Me too, how are you? Settling in to your new home?
I am so glad your long trek accross country is now behind you. It is natural to feel apprehensive in a new setting and change is hard but you made the journey. You have the desire to get well and we are all here to support you.
I am sorry for your ex but she will work out her own problems. Remember they are her problems, you do not own her problems.
I am sure you are tired so let your body rest and heal. Your mind needs to heal too. You are well on your way to healing. You will have up days and down days but just keep taking baby steps forward and you will make progress.
Any chance you can link up with a therapist where you are now located?
Loved the chicken story. I used to have a friend that kept a pet chicken in her downstairs bathroom...............she also had a pet goat that lived in the house and wore baby Pampers...............Honest.
Remember to be kind to yourself and keep posting, we care.