Having read your post, I think that patience is going to be the key here. You say that she is on meds for depression and anxiety as well as being in councilling. On the assumption that these are working for her (And this is perhaps something you & your wife should assess) I think its going to be a case of waiting for the improvement. 'Curing' depression is a long term exercise and it sounds like you are well on your way.
well yes we are in marriage counselling and she is in counselling herself, its just hard to separate what she says things she does, I am guessing that she is just a mess herself and I am just confused with the whole situation myself, it is very hard to understand and i am trying to be here for her and trying to make sense of the whole situation especially when it comes to our marriage. I don't know if the things that she says are really what she feels or if its just how she feels at the time. I am just trying to get a better understanding for depression and for others that are dealing with similar situations. Her decision to move out and away from me seems to be the answer to her problems or at least that is how she feels about the situation, usually all she can focus on is on the negative things, things I say are usually blown out of proportion and not what I am saying at all. Thanks for your thoughts and help
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