I would not give his employer too many details as he may want to do this himself but you will have to give them a brief idea. If he is having suicidal thoughts then I would definately get a professional to have a look at him. Always remember that you are doing the right thing, even though it seems wrong. As I eluded to earlier, I had to make the same decision a couple of days ago with my sister. What made it difficult for me is that I was doing this all on the phone as I was 300 miles away at uni and my mum had to physically do it... so I do understand how hard this is for you but please be strong.
LEt us know how you get on.
Some symptoms of clinical depression include:
People with major depression can not simply “shake off” their feelings. Depression does not go away by itself; however, almost all people with depression can overcome it with the proper treatment.
You are doing all the right things by supporting your husband and making decisions in his best interest. I will offer my prayers for all of you and please keep posting here as we support you.