Well it’s a long story and idk where to start. My mom and I moved out of his house 2 to 3 years ago. Since then we have moved around a bit but it’s been better then living with him. he is also bipolar(sp?) in other words he has something wrong in his head that makes him kind of crazy hard to explain. But mom says he’s doing "better" well since we have been in the place when we are now which we have been in for almost a year I have found this guy who I have fallen in love with. We have been off and on for a year and now we have been going strong for 2 and half months. Well mom says were moving back in with dad. Ill be moving back in on the 15 of dec. we have already stated moving. Well that means moving away from my friends and boy friend which sucks. That’s problem one. Problem 2 is with my boyfriend. Me and him fight a lot. He has cheated on every girl he’s been with. But he’s not that bad of a guy he just comes from a really bad home life. But im always scared he will cheat or do something to hurt me it’s hard to explain. Problem 3. Im trying to figure out a way to help my boyfriend. He had 2 older brothers who moved out and have lives and 2 younger brothers the older ones are half brothers. the Jason who is 2 years younger is his real brother then there’s a half brother who’s like 5 the youngest is his step dads son so he is always treated best and gets away with every thing. Jason is treated ok. No one pays attention to him he can stay out and never go home for days and no one cares. He stays with me and his bro at my house they basically lived there till recently. But jimmy he never lives there hasn’t for 3 months. The only time mom cared where he was when she needs him to clean watch little bros cook. Does the youngest home work. There just were a lot of problems. well this last time step dad hit him he ran away and mom called him in as a run away like she really cared but he had court cases for some stuff he did and she was scarred he wouldn’t show which meant she would go to jail. So she got him back and had his real dad come and get him. They said he was failing 4 classes lived with me. and that we were having sex. And all this other stuff that was true but still he did them all as a cry for help and cause he wanted ppl to care. him and his bro Jason call my mom and Jason calls me sis and its like were a little family but now that dad has him I never get to see him. I thought him living with his real dad would be good but his real dad is really crazy he is stuck in the army days and lies and he’s a big problem and jimmy knows but tries to hide it I just feel like I need to help and don’t know how. He’s a hard person to talk to. He’s never really open up to ppl no more because ppl turn there backs and leave him so he keeps it to him self and hides it and I want to help. Well I have more problems but heres a start. And oh I have depression. Im a messed up kid hard to explain but will soon.
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Post Edited By Moderator (djdaz_1985) : 12/5/2007 4:52:50 AM (GMT-7)
Hello and Welcome to Healing Well. this is Kitt. You have written alot of info here and it is a bit hard to follow.
I just wanted to welcome you and assure you that you will hear from the moderators of this forum and they are vey wise. I think perhaps concentrating on your personal issues may be the best way to offer you help.
Know we care and we will try to help you.
I agree with Lyn. I know that tough love is difficukt sometimes but sometimes it is the only way to be. Sometimes we need to take some time out for ourselves and I think that is what you should be doing now.
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