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getting by
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   Posted 12/9/2007 12:29 PM (GMT -7)   
I notice that there is a lock on Alone's thread, and I feel like it is my fault.  I just got really frustrated because I know that everybody here was giving her their honest opinion and she didn't want to listen.
If it is my fault, please fogive me for sounding harsh to her.
You are all very special and I know this is a hard time of year for us.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs,
getting by
fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue, clinically depressed and allergies


TeNNiSd0C09
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   Posted 12/9/2007 3:56 PM (GMT -7)   

Hey, I followed the post, and I dont think it was your fault. Sometimes when we get angry we aren't thinking clearly. In my opinion, Alone sounded angry. When we are angry we dont want to hear from other people. Sometimes its hard to accept the facts, especially dealing with a lot of issues. I know how that can be. But, you guys gave her your honest opinions. Its ok that she didnt want to listen, and it wasnt your fault. I think maybe you feel more guilty becaus eyou wanted to help, but she wouldnt let you.

Its like my ortho, I been going to him 4 years, he would get very angry and I knew he felt guilty because he wanted to help me so much, but he couldnt find the answers. I think he felt like it was his fault.

But, I dont think this was anyone's fault. And you guys tried your best. You cant always help everyone. I know that can be very frustrating. But, you have to remember, you help so many people every day. I dont know what I could do without you guys. Finding this place was a blessing for me, and I am sure others would agree. You should not feel guilty, you do so much for everyone everyday. You guys are amazing and never forget that! 


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"Cracks in the concrete are just reminders that you fall apart no matter how strong you are"
"You asked what was wrong and I smiled and said, 'Nothing' then I turned around and whispered...'Everything'
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getting by
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   Posted 12/9/2007 4:09 PM (GMT -7)   
Thank you Tennis. How are you feeling? Is your medication still helping you? I sure hope so. You sound like things are going good for you and I am so happy. You are such a bright young lady and I am happy to be able to write to you. Thanks again.
Hugs,
Karen
fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue, clinically depressed and allergies


ShynSassy
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   Posted 12/9/2007 4:45 PM (GMT -7)   
Getting by

I am not sure what happened with that post,not your fault so don't worry about it.
Mod- Depression

Chronic Depression, Panic Attacks,Anxiety Attacks,Anorexia
Meds I have taken throughout the years:Wellbutrin,Tranxene,Paxil,Prozac,Valium,
Lexapro,Zyban,Buspar,Clonazepam

Have been med free for 2 years now.

I will scream with you,Cry with you and hopefully laugh with you.


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TeNNiSd0C09
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   Posted 12/9/2007 5:08 PM (GMT -7)   
The med helped a lot yesterday, but today was bad. I set my alarm clock for 8 so I could take it because I normally take it at 6:20....well, I forgot to turn the alarm on...and I woke up at 10. I took it then, but I was already feeling bad. I have noticed along with the drowsiness, my head being spaced out, and beeing so sleepy I cant hold my eyes open, that I also get a headache. I only get it when I have the side-effect symptoms. And it is in the same place...I think it has to do with my eyes....but anyways, I have hurt today and I started feeling my med after lunch and I got in a really bad mood. It was weird. But, yesterday was awesome. I woke up early no problem and went volunteering all day and I never did experience any symptoms. I felt good. Hopefully this week will go good with the uping the dosage!
 
I have been in a better mood though now! I guess because I am so hopeful and now I know something will get done for me! I am just really excited about finally being able to do something! The side-effects are worth it to me!
 
But, thanks for caring so much! I will let you know how it goes Wedn. Thanks!
"Sometimes when I say 'Oh Im fine' I want someone to look me in the eyes and say 'Tell the truth'
"Cracks in the concrete are just reminders that you fall apart no matter how strong you are"
"You asked what was wrong and I smiled and said, 'Nothing' then I turned around and whispered...'Everything'
"If I talk and laugh too loud...its because I am trying to forget that I am sad."
"Sometimes it is best to forget what you feel and remember what you deserve"
"Im going to smile like nothing is wrong, talk like everything is perfect, act like its all a dream, and pretend its not hurting me."


djdaz_1985
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   Posted Yesterday 4:38 AM (GMT -7)   
Like Shy, I dont know what happened to that thread to get it locked... but I know things got a little heated. Im not into apportioning blame since there was nobody that was singularly to blame. Alone was very angry and made a statement which was over the top and Getting By reacted to it in the same manner. As far as im concerned, the thread is locked and this is an end to the whole business.

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