Hello, this is Kitt and Welcome.
I too am glad that you have talked with your wife and please keep the communication lines open.
I know life can deal us a lousy hand sometimes but it appears to me that you have risen to the challenges and not only deal with your own problems but are caring and supportive of your wife.
I commend you for being such a decent and caring person.
Warmest wishes for a happy holiday season and a wonderful new year.
There is only so much you can do to help your wife and you have to decide when enough is enough. Many times people stick to it through EVERYTHING and although some succeed, many make themselves ill. I wouldnt want you to make yourself ill because you are trying too hard.
We will always be here