For a few days he was out of bed. Yesterday was a good day. Our son has spent the last two nights at home with his dad rather than grandparents. This morning he calls me and asks if I can drive over to the house to take him to church and bring then to grandparents. Daughter had a bad night, for the first time since she has been on meds the twitching woke her up and I had to give her more medication--she is out cold. I do not want to leave her alone (her grandparents are at their church). DH wants to stay in bed. It was so cold in the house last night he could not sleep. Son said that makes no sense, he can get in a warm car to drive him to a warm church or get out of bed and turn up the thermostat. His choice makes no sense. That got DH mad and argumentative. While I was on the phone he started getting upset with our son. I told him that he was digging a big hole for himself, but it does not seem to matter to him. He hung up on me. I called son back. He will walk to church--it is really close to our house--he was just concerned about getting to grandmothers. That is easy the youth pastor, my best friend, plus several other people I listed drive right by my parents house. He forgot about that, when I reminded him he said he would be ok.
When will I ever get my husband back??? Or should I realize that may never happen. I dont know..........Right now it is all about daughter I do not have time to ponder if my DH is suffering depression or jerkism.
Thank you so much for the prayers. Today was an ok day for husband. Since he was having tingling in his head and was unable to attend church I told him he had to go back home. Seeing him in bed was bad for the kids and parents. I took him home before church. I went to church with daughter and then had brunch with parents and my son. Son is a big Patriots football fanatic--he went to bed so late after watching the big game on TV--he missed church. When I called to check in on husband he told me the bed was made and he was showered shampoo'd and shining. I spent the afternoon with him. Tonight our son decided he wanted to spend the night with dad and I am back at my parents enjoying peace and quiet. Daughter is working on her computer--seems twitch free tonight.
I am working on taking each day as it comes, not planning ahead. It is a bit frightening, but I can seem to handle only one day at a time.
Post Edited (ShynSassy) : 1/3/2008 5:37:19 AM (GMT-7)
I am so happy for you right now! I know that it will still take some time but it does look like things are on the road to recovery for you.
Keep us posted as to how things are going. You will still be in my thoughts and prayers.
I am so happy for you and your family. Sounds like things are going a lot better. I take effexor too, is it helping her a lot? I sure hope so.
Good luck to you,