A few years ago, I found a forum much like this one that really helped me. I quit for 4 months, then my water heated melted down all over the main floor of my house. The repair guy saw me staring at the damage and offered me a smoke. I took it & started up again just like that. An incidious habit.
Unfortunately, that forum doesn't exist anymore but I am still on the lookout for something alike. Yeah, I liked the approach my director friend took. Being a former smoker himself, he knows what works and what doesn't when talking to people.
If I find a good quit-smoking forum, I'll pass it on Kris.