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Daisy9980
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   Posted 1/14/2005 6:23 AM (GMT -7)   
Please pray for me.  Please cross your fingers and please send your hugs.  But most of all pray for me.
 
I am going threw an incredibly tuff time with my boyfriend of over 5 years.  We are having trouble moving forward in our relationship.  I think the dx of E six month ago has inabled us to move forward.  Anyway we are almost at a point of separation.  I love him more then I could describe to any of you.  I can't get into details, I am off to work and don't want to cry anymore.  But please pray for my relationship.  It is the most important thing to me.  He is the most important thing.  Please I need your prayers.  Thanks alot my forum friends.
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try2bhappy
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   Posted 1/14/2005 6:56 AM (GMT -7)   
Tracy, Sorry things are so hard on you. You are in my prayers. It is easy said then can be believed but when one door closes God has another one for us to open. We just have to find it and opening it. You are in my prayers.
Your Forum friend Mary

kayakmom
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   Posted 1/14/2005 7:27 AM (GMT -7)   
Tracy, This is so very sad! It is indeed hard to keep relationships when stress of a chronic illness is added. I am so very sorry this is going on! I know your heart is aching....
 
Hang in there! If this is worth working on, see if some counseling as a couple would help you work things out.
 
 
(((((Tracy))))) hang in there! Praying, crossing fingers for you...hang in there....
 
Ginny

Daisy9980
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   Posted 1/14/2005 10:51 AM (GMT -7)   
Thanks so much guys. I am on my lunch break and knew to check, cause you all always write me. These past three days have just been hell and shocking of me. I am extremely pleased I have not had a seizure. Maybe the meds are helping. I know praying works and I need it so much, I thank you so much and keep them coming. I am so bummed, devastated and sad. And as of now we are still together, but I am not sure for how long. During the past five years I have never had to say that, but now I do :(
Thanks guys, Tracy
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DBG
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   Posted 1/14/2005 3:04 PM (GMT -7)   
I've been praying for it to work out.  I know this is so hard for you and I know how much he means to you.  I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.  ((Hugs))
Christine

Daisy9980
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   Posted 1/15/2005 7:49 AM (GMT -7)   
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Thank you.
 


kayakmom
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   Posted 1/15/2005 11:34 AM (GMT -7)   
(((((Tracy)))))) So hard. Keep working on it, if you can. I hope that you two can work things out in time. I know it is so painful and stressful. Glad the meds seem to be helping, though!!


Keep your chin up, better days are ahead!

Daisy9980
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   Posted 1/17/2005 1:18 PM (GMT -7)   
((ginny)) Thank you.
Thank all of you who replied. I really hope that it works, I believe when people pray for me it works. I am trying to get threw this as best as possible. I don't have words to really describe what I feel. Tracy
 


Daisy9980
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   Posted 1/22/2005 7:52 AM (GMT -7)   
SOOOOO
with every other freeking thing falling apart in my life here we go. I apparently left this exact window up on my screen the other day. Well my lovely MOTHER decided to read this whole thread about my relationship. She was mad and approaced me about it. I feel so violated. She was mad I didn't go to her to talk about it. I told her I didn't want to. She said well since you hate me anyway I am gonna give you my opinion which was " I don't like the fact he had been with my daughter for five years and hasn't proposed" HOLD UP WAIT A MINUTE> If I don't have a problem when why the F does she. It is people like her and society that is ruining our relations ship. Everything is peaches between us. But people are always asking "when are you two getting married". First off non of their beeswax but rude. From people constantly asking him this, it makes him think. And because he isn't ready at this moment he feels wrong and that he is wasting my time. I love him more then anything. The past week has been the same. Our relationship is still awsome.

I am sooooo pissed off at my mom I havn't been talking to her in days. What an invasion. She said oh well you left it up on the screen. She is the type to be nosey. Come on people when you look at the computer you know if it was something you were typing or if it is someones elses. She had to read the whole thread huh? Man if I had the money I would be out like a girl scout and move the hell out of here. I need no more parenting or invading anymore. I feel so violated. She is always watching us in the living room. She has a big mouth and sure she spread this to my dad and other family members. I know how she is unfortunately. Don't mean to make her sound bad... she is my mom. But I am very mad. I come here to chat wth you all. I have security somehow even though it is a public forum. I didn't want her reading this. She told me I shouldn't have left it up.

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
 


Daisy9980
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   Posted 1/23/2005 6:09 AM (GMT -7)   
bumping for much needed advice.........
 


try2bhappy
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   Posted 1/23/2005 7:02 AM (GMT -7)   
Hey Tracy,
You got to calm down. I'm not going to give you any advice excecpt to calm down. I'm so sorry about you and your boy friend. I also am a mom and personally I do not want to know what is going on in my son's life evey moment.Sometimes I get TMI about his life. I am here for him. But I really am not going out on a mission looking for the troubles in his life. You are still young . You will be out on your own soon enough. I have a mom who I love to pieces. But she is 83 now. She lost her husband a year ago. Lives by herself but we still check on her every day. She is forgetful a night. I tell her nothing about my life. If you tell her something it gets to be a confused story after she tells it. I miss not being able to have her there for me. But that is how life is. Iwont say anything else except things do get better. You are in my prayers. Mary

Daisy9980
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   Posted 1/25/2005 6:59 AM (GMT -7)   
I hear you about calming down. That is what I have heard my whole life. And I was just about to be put on meds (anti depressants/anxiety) but then I had the seizures and all Dr.'s agreed bad idea.

I cannot filter stress very well.

When it rains it pours is definately true. But I see not many "mothers" have replied to this after this happened with my mom. I am wondering what you all think. Maybe you don't want to comment, which I guess I understand. I feel majorly violated and still upset with her. She doesn't understand my anger towards her about this situation. Tells me it is me not her!! herumphf!!
 


try2bhappy
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   Posted 1/25/2005 8:22 AM (GMT -7)   
Tracy,
You got to understand One thing about mothers. They one eveything OK for their children. All the time they are pregnant with their child they try to do all that is right. Once that baby is born they still try to do what is best for that child they love so much. It hurts a mother to see their child unhappy or suffer. You live at home with you mom. She see's more about you then you want her to. When I go to my mom's and we play Scrabble it is like I'm 11 years old again. The board has to face me. If I take to long to make a word she helps saying she is older and knows more words. Maybe your mom should not of read what she did . But she did. You can't change that. It is over and done with. Just be careful what you leave out in her view. I quess that is what you can only do. Privacy is hard to have when you live with someone. Don't let this inncident rent so much space in your head. Please take care. Mary

Daisy9980
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   Posted 1/25/2005 2:30 PM (GMT -7)   
:)
Thanks Mary...Tracy
 


kayakmom
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   Posted 1/25/2005 3:37 PM (GMT -7)   
(((Tracy)))) I am sorry you felt so intruded upon!! Yes, I agree with Mary that moms tend to butt in to try and help their kids. Even as adults they are always so much apart of a mom's heart. Sorry she went about it wrong!

Mom's are so opinionated....Hoping you can work things out with your boy friend as well as your mom!

try2bhappy
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   Posted 1/25/2005 3:54 PM (GMT -7)   
Tracy,
I truely hope you are feeling better. Time does have a way of working thinks out.Even when things seem so overwhelming now. I am keeping you in my prayers. For me praying helps alot. I might not get what I ask for. But I know someone bigger and all loving cares for me when I really believe know one else does.And it is very true the best of mom's are very opinionated. Take Care Mary

SonyaTx
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   Posted 1/27/2005 9:38 AM (GMT -7)   

Tracy I am sorry to hear you have so much going on right now.

If I suspected something was wrong with my daughter and she was under 20 yrs old I might look at the screen but even then I am not sure I would since privacy is a big issue to me.

I feel like your mom made a mistake about this get her to realize this was a mistake and ask her to apologize to you for doing that.

Shes still your mom and none of us are perfect we all make mistakes.

You and Mike need to sit down alone somewhere quite and have a long talk about where your relationship is going tell him how you are feeling at this time. Dont keep it bottled up inside you have known him long enough to be able to spill your gutts to him.Honesty is always the best policy.

Hang in there you are just going thru a rough time..

Big Hugs and Lots of prayers for you!

 

Sonya

 

 

 

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