Yes, I get numbness and tingling in my feet often. If I stand for any length of time they do that and they can even do that when I'm not standing. That's when I stay busy doing anything I can do to keep my mind off of my symptoms. Otherwise you will start to obsess about them.
Sounds like you are very busy and things are falling behind- Maybe a small load of laundry to start with that you are able to carry. For your room, start in just one corner for 10 min. and keep doing that everyday or every other day and you'll be amazed at what you can get done. Maybe a half an hour on Sat. and Sun? You'll feel so much better when you get your surroundings under control.
My brother enlisted in the army when I was 19 and was in for three years. He was able to get home on leave once in awhile but I did miss him! It's normal for you to feel this way. But now onto a new "adventure" in your life. And you have your fibro family for support also!!!