Boy, you've really been going through alot! Many of your symptoms sound like Fibro. Hopefully you will get the Rheumatology referral because that is the next logical step. He will rule out anything else that your Dr. didn't & hopefully will be able to start helping you with the pain.
I also had all the crazy symptoms & I used to put them off to something else until I just couldn't handle it anymore. The fatigue and pain were my worst symtoms. I'm so glad that I finally gave up and got help. The meds haven't taken care of everything, but they help me get through the bad days.
Good luck and keep us posted. I hope you get to feeling better. Hugs!
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