Hi Jib and welcome. I'm sorry your wife is so down. She does need to get on anti-depressants immediately and maybe some therapy.
The forum rules does not allow talk of suicide on here. Since so many kind people have already given you advice I'm not going to edit everyone's post.
Read the fibro 101 thread, second on first page, it contains lots of great info you can print out for you wife to read if she won't get on the computer with you.
Being dxd with fibro is not an easy pill to swallow but there are a lot worse things to have. We work daily on this forum to help each other live as normal life as possible with fibro. Having a compassionate doctor that believes in fibro is a big help.
You are a good husband for trying to find help for your wife. We hope to see her on here soon too.
luv and hugs
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