I wish you peace right now. I agree with Marlee. She's always very insightful.
I do think you should look into Alanon. I've been in your shoes before and I attended many many Alanon meetings and learned A LOT!!! Anyone who's "cutting back on drinking" HAS a drinking problem. Its important to remember that your needs are just as important as his and above all, whether the kids are 14 days or 14 years old they need their parents and they need to be a priority until they leave home. (Even after in some cases)
You're stress will only compound your fibro and its tough to be in that situation. Does your husband have any education about this dreadful syndrome? Perhaps he needs to sit down and learn more so that he can understand your issues.
Again, I wish you all the best and hope you will find a positive course of action.
Post Edited (Schnook) : 1/6/2009 8:41:45 AM (GMT-7)