WOW, Sue!!! You'd think she'd be more concerned espeically since she's had a misscarriage before. I don't think you're over reacting at all, I'd be very upset if I were you. And it worries me that she's "too busy" to go to the doctor. But it's her call, I hope she/you aren't dissappointed by her decission.
Let us know how she's doing, you'll be in my thoughts.
Hi, Sue. I'm so sorry to hear she is having this prob and not going to the dr. Thirty yrs ago this month, I was 8 wks along. I had a lot of stress going on, my father was dying. I started to bleed on the ride home from visiting him 100 miles away @ the hospital. I had an appt scheduled the next morning. My dr. told me to go home and rest, DO NOT GO to work. I stayed home. The end of that wk, I ended up losing our baby. We were devastated. I almost died in the hospital. I was pregnant 2 more times, both times I had bleeding. I went to the dr and he kept a very close eye on me thru the 2 pregnancies.
After I lost my baby, I almost decided not to even try again. It took me some time to calm down, think it thru. I was willing to try again, my DH said he was behind me whatever the decision.
I was so scared each time, but I let my dr know w/ all my concerns. He said 'Call me, this way we are both in the loop'. I couldn't imagine just ignoring this. I fully understand your feelings. You and your family are in my prayers.
God bless. Alice.
I know the feeling.. the hurting inside makes you hurt on the outside. I'll keep good thoughts going for you dear, Sue. Again, I'm so sorry for the pain its putting you through.
Wish I could be there to hold your hand.