I have: Fibromyalgia, ME/CFS, Holt-Oram Syndrome, nasal allergies, food allergies, depression, TMJ, anxiety
Married to a wonderful supportive husband & between us we have 4 children & 7 grandchildren
As apples of gold in silver carvings is a word spoken at the right time for it. Prov. 25:11
Hi Tyno. I went through something similar to what you are experiencing a few years ago. My mom had cancer and my husband and I moved from VA to NY to take care of her, even though my brother and sister lived less than two hours away. My brother had HepC and has since died himself and he couldn't be much help. Ultimatley, my hubby dogs and I moved in with my mom and watched her fade away for three months. When she passed (and even before) my siblings were laying claim to everything in her house. Then when she died I had to settle the estate by myself, including cleaning out her house, garage sales, probabte court...painting, lawn mowing...all of it alone with my husband. Both my brother and sister had a fit because they thought they didn't 'get enough'. My sister, to this day is still not speaking to me because my mom left me some extra money in her will for always taking care of her.
You are strong and will get through this. Stand your ground. yeah...it hurts physically and mentally...boy do I know that. I have read that a death of a loved one can divide a family more than any other catastrophe...sometimes for as little as a hundred bucks. I hope that doesn't happen to you, but don't be bullied like I was.
I am thinking of you.