I'm sorry. Its so hard to lose a parent and a friend. My thoughts are with you and your family in this very sad time.
Thinking of you, Puppylover, and am sending hugs your way. I'm glad you can be there with you husband to offer comfort.
I'm so sorry for your loss Puppylover. It's never easy to lose a loved one. I hope that you do decide to take your Xanax; it will make your trip so much easier for you and also, once you've landed, your pain should not be as bad. When we get stressed and tighten muscles, it only adds to our pain. Hopefully, the Xanax will help you to remain calm on your flight. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family,
Fibromyalgia, Osteoarthritis, scoliosis, back problems, hypothyroidism.